pinkeleora08 posted an update 7 months ago

    @jun
    I’d like to report @/cocostar
    There was a situation recently where someone was mis-pronouned by this person, but then said person refused to fix the mistake, continued to use their deadname, and hadn’t stopped until someone else mentioned it, and only then did she use their proper pronouns/name. I thought that would be the end of the…[Read more]

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BMBWf-necDJB4jjfbFavMTCAGhzz2flBgo-MaA6gc7w/edit?usp=sharing
        Sorry, does this work better?
        Anyways, happy hannukah/kwanza/christmas/whatever you celebrate!

        cocostar replied 7 months ago

        You literally have no context lol. The ‘if I laugh at your trauma’ was about something on Tik Tok, not here.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          Actually, the ‘if I laugh at your trauma’ was one of your one posts. And I have a screenshot 😉

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          ….
          It was a post I made about Tik Tok XDDDDDD

        cocostar replied 7 months ago

        That’s literally not evidence but pop off lol. You got what you wanted. I’m leaving the site 😜🍋🥳

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          I-
          You know what, I don’t even care anymore. Guilt-tripping me won’t work and I’m glad that we don’t have to deal with your **** anymore. I’m actually glad I stepped in and intervened

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Stepped in? Chile you did not do anything and you were just being irrelevant but aight. Okay, and who is ‘we’? You can’t speak on behalf of the entire site, and several kind friends of mine have said that they will miss me, so, again, define we? And what do mean by that censored word? At least I don’t claim that I’m not rude and then say blatantly…[Read more]

        ssssssssssssssssssssssssssss replied 7 months ago

        I don’t mean to intrude, but for what out of that I’ve seen, I believe that Coco should have the right to keep her activity private to some. If it’s not directly targeted at someone/s, I think she should have the ability to keep her boundaries between people.
        I am not trying to offend.:) Thank you, have a nice day!

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          She should have the ability, but if she’s just blocking people out so we can’t discuss problems and solutions based on past events, then I think we should be able to talk about it with her and find a solution to the problem! (The problem being things mentioned and left unmentioned, and the ones I tried to discuss with coco are only a few) I only…[Read more]

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          When did I tell you my pronouns?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Actually, that is not why I asked you to leave, so din’t make assumptions.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *don’t

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        Sorry, someone else already told me them. She/her, am I correct?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Yes, but it is rather hypocritical, don’t you think, that you want to have a conversation about pronouns with me when you assumed mine.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        And I’m not making assumptions. By the way, why did you ask me to leave, then?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Because a lot of things were happening at once and, regardless of your intentions, your comments were bringing me stress, and I just wanted to calm things down, and deal with things one at a time. You continuously ignoring my requests only succeeded in making me more stressed and upset. I planned on talking to you at a later stage, when I felt…[Read more]

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        ‘we’ are the OG spoes from about 4 years ago and farther, and more. So about 30 of us. Also, sorry, the censored word was c r a p

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          And I didn’t assume your pronouns. I saw multiple people in your activity use she/her pronouns when referring to you, and I assume most were friends of yours. Didn’t you say you were going to leave the site?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Okay, good for you and your ‘OG spoes’ (I’m guessing that that was an attempt to belittle my authenticity as someone who is accepted as a spoe, and I don’t particularly care for pride when it comes to being a spoe, so that did not work). I don’t know why you hate me for some unknown reason, along with your thirty friends, but if your intention…[Read more]

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Actually, I’m debating it and that’s besides the point. Also, I have not officially left yet. You did though. Just because you see someone using pronouns for someone doesn’t mean it’s right. For all you know, I could have been planning to tell my friends I go by different pronouns now.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        You could’ve just told me if you were stressed, though. Then we could both pause for a minute, calm down, and talk it out. You didn’t need to yell. I somehow managed to stay calm through your sharp words

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I didn’t feel the need to. I thought that you, an older user, with such experience, would be able to infer that I said that for a reason. I guess not 🤷‍♀️

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I had to yell because you weren’t listening to me and it was all too much.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I wasn’t belittling you, I was just using ‘OG’ as a way to describe them. And when were you accepted as a spoe? I don’t hate you, I really don’t. I just wanted to talk to you as another human, you screamed at me for no reason apparent at the time being, you reported me, I reported you, and now we’re here. No one else hates you, we’re just annoyed…[Read more]

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Maybe my attitude is childish because I am a child.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          I may be an old user, but not everyone has superhuman powers where we can feel your bad energy through a screen.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I do, actually. Unbeknownst to you, several people have spoken with me about what you originally wanted to discuss. I actually reported you for a reason. You didn’t.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Huh? Please explain.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        What did I want to discuss, then? I wanted to discuss this horrific attitude on this once paradise to book-lovers, so it could once again be a paradise, and not a car wreck. There’s nothing else I wanted to discuss, because I can’t have osmething personally against you, as we’ve never spoekn before.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *something
          *spoken
          Well, at least three people have spoken to me about that and I don’t need a fourth. Also, why am I your focus? Do you think that I am the one and inly reason that this site is in ruins? Because I’m not.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *only

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          And the site was never a paradise

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        The site was a paradise at one point, when we still had open chat and a bunch of other users who left long ago. How would you know? You were never there. And you’re not my focus here, you’re just the only person I know at the moment who’s doing this.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          You don’t know me, actually. I have never spoken to you before this.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          It wasn’t. I’ve spoed things from the time of the Open Chat and seen arguments. Several who have been on the site for around as long as you have told me that the site has never been a paradise, that it’s always been imperfect, a reflection of its occupants.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I’m not doing anything apart from defending myself.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I know, but I’ve been watching you doing this, and now we’ve spoekn, so now I know you. Not completely, of course, because I’m sure there’s more to your personality 🙂

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Watching is very creepy and very different from actually talking to me and knowing me. In my eyes, you are a stranger that I do now know.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          You’d have to spoe a lot farther than cats to see when it was greater. You’d have to be there. And why are you arguing with me about that, of all things? I’m trying to clear this up and you’re opening more things to argue about

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I have spoed a lot further than Cats. In fact, I hardly ever spoe Cats and have not done so in a while.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          And I do see that the site was once better, but it was never the paradise that you say it was.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        Watching, eh? You’ve used “spoeing” as an excuse to spy on people many a time, and you know it. You could use either word and it’d mean the same thing.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          There are deleted profiles, though. And many, for that. You’d have to know that there were 3 different cat users in the beginning, and that two of them were deleted and played huge roles in the old rps.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Huh? When I spoe, I comment something. There’s a difference between commenting and creepily scrolling through.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I wouldn’t have to know that, because two users do not represent an entire age.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          And besides, those of your time have told me of their experiences, and so I come to the conclusion that the site has never been and will never be perfect.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        Really, though. There were many many more users, artists, rpers, writers, partiers, etc. And no, the early spoers only watched creepily; that’s what it really is. Can we please just stop? This was supposed to be fixing a misunderstanding, and now it’s just rarguing, and I don’t think either of us like it.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          Can you stop with the “the site has never been perfect” garbage? It’s never been perfect, but it’s been pretty dang close, besides the glitches. Why do you want the site to be not perfect, anyways?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I don’t want the site to not be perfect, I am simply saying that it isn’t. Then stop acting like I ruined your perfect paradise.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          You guys called yourselves stalkers and that was accurate. Well recently, spoes have evolved and comment. I personally find it creepy when spoes don’t comment where they are welcome.
          I certainly don’t like it, but neither of us are stopping, and I feel inclined to defend myself.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I’m not saying you did, you definitely didn’t. It just kind of died about a year ago, if not longer. You just made it worse, like punching a dead corpse. You can just stop arguing here, and we can stop punching the poor soul.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          Dude, you have no idea what you’re talking about. We literally have our own discord where we talk, all of the oldie spoes, and we’ve never talked once about that. We can, if that makes you comfortable, but that’s really messed up that you’d make up random stuff for a really useless claim.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I’m a being with opinions. It feels like you are stifling those opinions. Oh, and I’m not the only one, so please stop singling me out. If this is the logic, then why not report everyone who has ever gotten into an argument on here?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Talked about what lol? If you mean me, please don’t, I’ve had enough of people threatening to ******* up on Discord. Oh, sorry, I thought you were one of those spoes. I’m inclined to forget, for I have not spoed properly in a while and do not wish to.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I’m not stifling opinions, it’s just that history of a site is not an opinion, it’s a fact. And I’m not singling you out, I only reported you because you reported me for a really pointless reason- that being that you were “too stressed out” and decided to yell at me. Can we be done with this now?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          So now my stress is invalid?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I said that it feels that way, and from what I can see, that is your experience, not every single person who has ever been on the site.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          No one was ever threatening you, though. You made it up and you know it. You were never on the discord, so you wouldn’t know if we said anything about you, anyway. If you don’t spoe, then how come you were in my activity just a bit ago, before we had been talking?

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          That’s childish, don’t you think? I did this because you did that

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I reported you because you refused to listen to me. You did it for revenge and to be petty, from what I can see. We are not the same.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Also, off-topic, but did you ever know a user called nasaperson10 or something?

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        Stress isn’t invalid, only when you use it as an excuse to ban someone. Sure it may have been my experience, but I’m sure if I asked fellow oldies, who already reminisce about the good ol’ days, they’d be happy to explain in greater detail.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I’m not banning you. I just did not want you to comment at the time because the amount of notifs I was getting stressed me out. You don’t know what stresses me and so you cannot say that my stress is invalid.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          It wasn’t necessarily anything personal.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I didn’t talk to you for revenge, only so that you wouldn’t continue your terrible actions. And the nasaperson10, I may have, but my memory is fuzzy.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          You actually did attempt to ban me, though. The post is still in your activity.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Well you haven’t deleted yours and not have you apologised for not listening to me. I

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          1) Which of my actions are so terrible? Defending myself? Also, it’s not very wise to judge without my part of the story.
          2) Thanks, I guess.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          The ‘I guess’ was my autocorrect, sorry.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *nor

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I- jskahdjash what? I’m not deleting mine so you can keep yours and watch me get banned you stay making people miserable. I’m not apologizing for something I never did. Thank you, and goodbye.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          1) being a **** to people and then ranting to others that you’re so miserable and your life ***** (which is only reflecting off of what you’ve done to others)
          2) Np

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Y-you did though. You literally continued commenting after I asked you not to. Again, just carrying through with my words, not trying to ban you. Who have I made miserable? I can’t apologise for something that you won’t specify.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          To who? That’s not specific. Gosh, were you reading those posts? That was really private…

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Uhhh no but pop off ig. You don’t know me or why things are going on, so you do NOT get to say that, especially about such private matters.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        The things crossed out are ‘j er k’ and ‘stinks’

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          I continued commenting because I though that you were just being overdramatic, not because you were stressed. And actually, “carrying your words” is the same thing as doing it. So yeah, you tried to ban me. And you made Poet, Gael, the old site users like Thea and Kira, cats xemself, Jess, and everyone else who you’ve talked to who hasn’t randomly…[Read more]

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          How am I meant to know that if I’m never told? I’m not a mindreader. And are these people too scared to talk to me or something? Because none of them have ever said anything.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Well talking about me behind my back isn’t the solution to that. And how have I harmed them?For I have no recollection if doing any such thing.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Well I wasn’t, and it’s not fair of you to write off my stress as overdramaticness.
          Mm no, my intention was not to get you banned but you can keep that ideology.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        Private? What private posts? Anything you share on the internet is no longer private ****

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          *l m a o

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Well, to me it was, and it’s not something that I wanted to share with you.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        You’ve talked to them, but you just know them by their site names, which I seriously can’t remember at the moment because I haven’t been on here in years.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Talked to who?

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          Anyways, can we just- stop? I’m really tired of this and I’m kind of losing my marbles. I’m sorry if I huwt youw feewings but you really didn’t figure this out before you decided to do all you did. Good ridance and have a merry christmas.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *Riddance
          Even id you dislike me there is no need to be rude.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *if
          Bold of you to assume I celebrate Christmas.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          You did, and goodbye. I apologise for whatever I did that offended you so much.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          No idea what you mean but bye

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        But also, what do you mean by “something I wanted to share with you”? Like, again, if you post something on the internet, EVERYONE KNOWS. It’s not a secret. And the peoples I was talking about were the names mentioned earlier that you made miserable.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          OML I LITERALLY EARLIER SAID “MERRY CHIRSTMAS/HANNUKAH/KWANZA” AND I SAW YOU SAID MERRY CHRISTMAS EARLIER SO I THOUGHT THAT’S WHAT YOU CELEBRATED. STOP CORRECTING MY SPELLING, IT’S CALLED A TYPO, WE ALL DO IT. GOOD RIDDANCE.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Well? i thought that maybe people here would respect my privacy, but I guess that was a misjudgement on my part :/
          I’m still confused.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Bold of you to assume that I celebrate anything, also, just don’t assume based on information that could easily prove to be false.
          Sorry for being myself.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        Respect your privacy? You said it yourself that this site isn’t paradise. And I never saw anything that would’ve been personal to you. If I did, I would’ve left it, but not everyone does that.

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          You don’t need to apologize. I’m sorry I assumed you celebrated a holiday, but when I say merry christmas, it’s not a death threat. People say happy hannukah often, even when they know they’re jewish and I’m not.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Okay. That’s good. Bye, although I still don’t understand your point or why you’re reporting me.
          You said you were being calm but you’re not…you shouted too.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        And you reported me as well, for what reason I don’t know. And guess what, we both shouted now, and I know that’s what you wanted. Congratulations and have a happy december/not december because I might’ve just rudely assumed that you use the modern calender.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          Because you weren’t respecting my wishes in my activity. Had it been anywhere else, I wouldn’t have reported you. I think I can delete it now? But it’s your turn to explain now. Beyond ‘because you did’.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I’ve explained this about a billion times, and I will once more. I was trying to defend the friends I named a few messages up, and figure this out so it never happens again. Why do you think there’s so much drama surrounding you? Because you created it, not because someone just randomly out-of-the-blue decided to hurt your feelings. I’m done with…[Read more]

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          No I mean why did you report me. I understand that I have hurt your friends, somehow or other, and I apologise for that. I meant why did you report me. But I can see that I am not welcome here, and this is giving me a headache, so bye.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I deleted the report tho, not that it matters now.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        I reported you because you hurt my friends. That’s why. That and because you misgendered/misused pronouns, etc. Things I’ve already told you a billion times and you’re trying to use as another excuse to argue. Goodbye.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I’m not. I apologised whenever I realised that I deadnamed someone, and I don’t know how to apologise to those people; it’d be meaningless as I do not know how I harmed them. However, I still apologised, above. If you’re not willing to tell me how, then I can’t do much. Bye.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I don’t wish to argue.

        pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

        You can literally just scroll through our conversation and you’ll see where I named specifics, you asked me for more, you repeated said specifics, etc. I really am done, so please just stop.or I won’t even answer.

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          I mean how I specifically hurt them, you just gave names, but I’ll stop commenting now.

        Jun replied 7 months ago

        I know it’s holidays and we’re all getting cabin fever, but it seems to me there’s a growing trend of reporting and counter-reporting to retaliate. I’m often finding that the argument that develops out of the reporting usually ends up being worse than the cause for the initial report.

        Cocostar, I’ve instituted a temporary week long ban on your…[Read more]

        Jun replied 7 months ago

        I know it’s holidays and we’re all getting cabin fever, but it seems to me there’s a growing trend of reporting and counter-reporting to retaliate. I’m often finding that the argument that develops out of the reporting usually ends up being worse than the cause for the initial report.

        Cocostar, I’ve instituted a temporary week long ban on your…[Read more]

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          Thank you! Sorry for all the trouble.

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 7 months ago

    Dear peoples on here that I haven’t talked to in forever because I talk to you elsewhere, and others:
    Please stop using my deadname, and use the name Sam when referring to me, as well as they/them pronouns.
    Thank you! <3

        thestoriangirl replied 7 months ago

        *random spot appears out of nowhere* Hi San! You’re so valid! I love your name

          pinkeleora08 replied 7 months ago

          Awww thanks so much!

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *spoe

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          *Sam

          thestoriangirl replied 7 months ago

          omg I’m so sorry I just realized my typo (tysm coco you’re a life saver) IM SO SORRY-

          cocostar replied 7 months ago

          (You’re welcome Ella!)

        lifeasabookworm replied 7 months ago

        Good day! Sam, gotcha – i’ll keep that in mind 🙂

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 11 months, 1 week ago

    *Spoes. If you hear me, someone come hither. I ish bored and haven’t been on the site in months*

        thecoven4ever replied 11 months, 1 week ago

        KATEEEEEE
        jello!

        ms-boba-kitten replied 11 months ago

        H I

        uraza169 replied 11 months ago

        HEYO

        cutenesslily replied 10 months, 1 week ago

        ‘lo!

        iceangel replied 8 months, 2 weeks ago

        hi?

          cutenesslily replied 8 months, 2 weeks ago

          hi angel

          iceangel replied 8 months, 2 weeks ago

          hi lily

        everneveracademy replied 8 months, 1 week ago

        HIII

          iceangel replied 8 months, 1 week ago

          hi

          cutenesslily replied 8 months, 1 week ago

          hellooo

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    (Sorry for all of that, I was hacked -.-)

    Anyways, come and join my RP!
    It’s about prison and angst and stuff.
    https://docs.google.com/document/d/1oDKB598AE0J4pHU49RYp-17uuFwmHNgWfqzLSyHI5eQ/edit?usp=sharing

        prettymermaid replied 6 months, 1 week ago

        What?! You got hacked?! jeez

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Ya like jazz?

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Ya like jazz?

        eloiseruizpalma replied 1 year, 1 month ago

        Kateee noooooo

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Ya like jazz?

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Ya like jazz?

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Ya like jazz?

    pinkeleora08 posted an update 1 year, 1 month ago

    Ya like jazz?

        cutenesslily replied 1 year ago

        *a spoe has entered the chat*

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