youareenough posted an update in the group QUESTIONS FOR SOMAN 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    Hi Soman! Could you tell me your thoughts on https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ?
    I find the analysis of AWWP very interesting!

        bronwynofjauntjolie replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        I-
        You got me good 😂

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          The part at 0:42 is so good! really intriguing, eye opening, even.

        bronwynofjauntjolie replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        Yes, I agree! I love how it explores sexualities, and the meanings behind Agatha being able to cross halfway bridge!

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          Yes! I’m so glad that you like it too! It’s one of my favourite analysis’. It really dives into every aspect of all the characters!

        bronwynofjauntjolie replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        Absolutely! I really liked it when they used the line, “Never gonna let you down”, it summaries Tagatha beautifully

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          Yes, and how Sophie never gave up on being a princess.

          bronwynofjauntjolie replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          Yes, I liked that part!

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          I hope everyone who sees it does too

        lauren813 replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        I knew it would come in handy one day to memorize that link-

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          just wait till I start disguising them.

        emersoncolin replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        Oh yes… very interesting indeed.

        ladyofthebooksge replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        what-
        oh wow, this was interesting… I need him to see this

          youareenough replied 2 weeks ago

          Yes, I really hope he does too ^-^

        cattyrose replied 2 weeks ago

        wow. just wow. I never thought of it like that

          youareenough replied 2 weeks ago

          Honestly same. An eye opening account

          bonfanti-o replied 1 week, 6 days ago

          All I saw when I looked that link up was a Rick Astley video. Is that what you guys are talking about or is my phone being weird?

          davysmavy replied 1 week, 5 days ago

          @/bonfanti-o…. you just got rick rolled.

          youareenough replied 1 week, 5 days ago

          Hmm that’s weird try again 🙂

        donutqueen11 replied 1 week, 5 days ago

        @Youareenough, you are iconic. 😂

          youareenough replied 1 week, 5 days ago

          *bows* why thank you

    youareenough posted an update in the group THE EVER NEVER HANDBOOK Talk 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQk
    (Take away the k at the end)
    This person perfectly reviews the SGE series! The way they described Sophie never giving up on the idea of Tedros’ love until the last moment, because of her upbringing, the way they describe Sophie and her intentions and just the entire plot is so AHHHHH please watch it!!!…[Read more]

        cattyrose replied 2 weeks ago

        😞🙏

          youareenough replied 2 weeks ago

          Ehe

    youareenough posted an update in the group Website Central 2 weeks, 1 day ago

    @Jun my friend asked me to post this, so here I go!
    Will we have eyebrows in the revamp?

        shadowshinobi replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        That is exactly what I was thinking… I hope the website has more avatar features in the revamp.

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          ^^^Yes. I feel very bald without eyebrows 🙁

        catsforeverandever replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        Yes yes yes yes!!!! I would really like some eyebrows!

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          *retweets*

        ladyofthebooksge replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        EYEBROW SUPERMACY
        *comments for responses*

          youareenough replied 2 weeks ago

          I honestly feel incomplete without them 😔

        cattyrose replied 2 weeks ago

        lalagiza replied 2 weeks ago

        What other avatar features should they add?

          catsforeverandever replied 2 weeks ago

          Frecklessssss

          everneveracademy replied 2 weeks ago

          hatssss

          everneveracademy replied 2 weeks ago

          glassesssss

          cattyrose replied 2 weeks ago

          HATSSSSSS YESSSSSSSS
          AND TIES
          I LOVE TIES

          ladyofthebooksge replied 2 weeks ago

          FLOWY HAIRRR

          everneveracademy replied 1 week, 6 days ago

          braids!

          youareenough replied 1 week, 6 days ago

          I keep getting notifs and thinking I said something wrong so it’s a relief to see no one attacking me

          cattyrose replied 1 week, 5 days ago

          Imao we would never <33

          cattyrose replied 1 week, 5 days ago

          (apart from all these features and accessories we’re yeeting at you)

          youareenough replied 1 week, 5 days ago

          I have a deep fear of being shouted at and when I get a lot of notifs it’s my first thought. I’m working on it! <3 thank you

        i-stole-some-pie replied 1 week, 3 days ago

        i hope soooo

          youareenough replied 1 week, 3 days ago

          me too eyebrows are something I never expected to live without 😔😟😓

        sallysallysally replied 1 week, 3 days ago

        cocoooo

          youareenough replied 1 week, 3 days ago

          ehehe

        raynaevil809 replied 1 week, 3 days ago

        It’s ironic since Soman is considered the King of Eyebrows :/

          youareenough replied 1 week, 2 days ago

          But he has no eyebrows here 🧐

          everneveracademy replied 1 week, 2 days ago

          *gasp* hE dOeSn’T omg

          youareenough replied 1 week, 2 days ago

          a pain we all must share

        youareenough replied 1 week, 2 days ago

        unrelated but someone said i give off howdy pardner vibes and that is the best compliment i have ever had the pleasure of receiving

          cattyrose replied 1 week, 1 day ago

          I can’t argue with that–

          youareenough replied 1 week, 1 day ago

          Why thank you.

    youareenough posted an update in the group Website Central 2 weeks, 6 days ago

    @Jun
    Good day! As my username would perhaps suggest, I used to post what I hope was uplifting content, but that is no more. I would like to know if there are any plans or even the slightest possibility of the website returning to normal in the future. I do understand if that is not the case, but it’d be nice to know, because unfortunately, I do…[Read more]

        youareenough replied 2 weeks, 6 days ago

        Post script; I do not wish to be unkind in the former message, and if I am being so, I apologise profusely.

        cattyrose replied 2 weeks, 6 days ago

        kittybp2 replied 2 weeks, 6 days ago
        youareenough replied 2 weeks, 6 days ago

        It could be helpful for others as I don’t think everyone posts sge fanfictions.

        catsforeverandever replied 2 weeks, 6 days ago
        lalagiza replied 2 weeks, 5 days ago
        youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        I do hope Jun answers.

        lalagiza replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        and he better not copy paste

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          You sound threatening T-T

          queendeansophieofwoodsbeyond replied 1 week, 1 day ago

          yes. jun, do not copy pasta i am no longer asking.

          catsforeverandever replied 1 week, 1 day ago

          Do not copy pasta!!!

          catsforeverandever replied 1 week, 1 day ago

          🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    youareenough posted an update in the group THE EVER NEVER HANDBOOK Talk 1 month, 1 week ago

    You know how you’re meant to social distance? Well, I was doing that, but then someone came and sat right next to me. There was literally a “Please observe social distancing and keep this seat clear” sign.

        goodrocksforever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        oh my god
        that’s… not surprising but wow

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          It was really annoying but I couldn’t do anything.

        effie replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Ugh.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          And there were literally spare seats that they could have easily sat in (to make it clear it was the person and two children)

          effie replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Ah, yeah.

        ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        oof… that’s frustrating. And I wish more people took wearing masks seriously too

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Yeah, I really do.

          ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month ago

          Ik that it can be uncomfortable but that’s the safest way..asfkda;adfafadssda

          youareenough replied 1 month ago

          Personally, I can’t wear mine for too long or I’ll get sick, but if someone is able to they should.

          ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month ago

          yup, totally agree.

        youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        Tell me why

          ladyofthebooksge replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          *was that referred to my comment above?*
          because there are variant strains of the virus and I believe we should be responsible for our health and to minimize the damage done by the virus, wearing masks are effective. It’s been proven with data in other countries and if people wore masks more often travelling would be more safer than without masks.…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 week, 2 days ago

          Oh no ha ha I meant the song, in which this would be responded to with “ain’t nothing but a heartbreak”

          ladyofthebooksge replied 1 week, 1 day ago

          ohhh ok thx for clarifying!

          youareenough replied 1 week, 1 day ago

          you’re welcome. couldn’t make a post like that and be an anti masker.

    youareenough posted an update in the group THE EVER NEVER HANDBOOK Talk 1 month, 1 week ago

    Honestly, what is there to life. I started thinking about it semi seriously and bow I feel depressed. I hate to imagine what would happen if I thought about it thoroughly.

        cattyrose replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        yep.

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        *now

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Tw
        Knowing that if I died practically nobody would care…just…dam.

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I would care.

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          You are enough.

          cattyrose replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Me too <3

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Thank you <3
          You too
          But the thing that worries me the most is that I will never do everything. It’s impossible, and yet I want to. It’s probably why I wish I could manipulate time. That way, none would be wasted. I could probably live forever, and do it all. Alas.

          book-lover77 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          ^ I would care too.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          *hugs*
          Yes. This is what was missing from the site. The caring about one another. Mystery solved.

          effie replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I would care. I would care so much, Sky. *hugs*

          ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I would<3

        gummibear2434 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        I think about how horrible the world is, and I made a decision. I want to spend my whole life making the world the best it can be… I want to speak out… the hate is too much to bear and I want my future family members to be proud of me and my legacy. Maybe… think of it that way. A single candle burning through the night can hardly make a…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          But I can’t. For I have nowhere to speak, and I am but a shy being. It takes one splash for a wave, I know, but I cannot be that splash. I have no platform, and nobody understands me, or will even bother to.

          gummibear2434 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I completely understand what you mean. I feel the same way. That is why I write about everything… everything I observe and everything I hope to change… every good thing I see, I reflect on… there might not be much we can do right now, but we can prepare….

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Do you have an email address I can send something to?

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Yet what is the point of preparing? There is no guarantee that things will change.

          gummibear2434 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I would do anything to make this world even a little bit of a better place. Currently, the world needs to change, morally. And I refuse to stand by and watch it destroy itself. Even if it only prolongs its destruction, life is short and I will spend mine wisely.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          [email protected]
          My sister made it and thought it was funny to replace my name so I’m stuck with it to this day. I haven’t figured out how to change it yet…

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Personally, no. I cannot make a difference, especially with the kind of change I wish for. Good luck, though. I hate to say it, but I think you’ll need it.

        outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        (Sorry, youareenough? Do you have an email I could send something to?)

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Oops, I responded in the wrong place.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Never mind, I forgot the password.

        effie replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        There is rain. There is wind whistling through the branches. There are words. There is love. There are books. There is writing.
        Sky . . . I love you. A lot of people do here. Please stay alive.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Unfortunately, where I live, I don’t have all too much of that.
          I hate to say it but I doubt it. I have about two friends here, one now, seeing as Coco left. The other friend is you, and I’m hardly ever around, so I don’t see you all that much.
          I’m going to stay alive. I have contemplated death, but it’s not the best prospect right now, and…[Read more]

          effie replied 1 month ago

          Ah, that’s sad, I love rain.
          *hugs*
          Thank you. Thank you for staying alive. I hope life becomes more meaningful in the future.

        ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        yeah….
        And there will be people who care about you, all of your being. Life can be brutal and feeling hopeless is valid, however, I would like to say there is good moments in life. Please stay alive<333

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I will, after all, I have to see if Adrienette happens. And watch the Avatar movie so I can make fun of it.
          However, I have never met any such people. And in my life, the good has passed, and the sad thing about it is that I never knew those were the good times :((
          I wish I could go back 3 years or so, back to the prime of my life.

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          No, there will be another prime. THere is so much more…

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          The next prime will be in about 6 years, and it’s almost not worth waiting so long.

          ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          *hugs you again*

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          *hugs back*
          But I’m definitely staying alive, because I have hope, foolish or not.

          ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month ago

          glad to hear that<3

          youareenough replied 1 month ago

          And glad to, uh, feel it?

          ladyofthebooksge replied 1 month ago

          <3

          youareenough replied 1 month ago

          *smiles*

        youareenough replied 1 month ago

        Does anybody have any advice? I have a problem. I am someone who plays it safe. In Genshin, I don’t do scary quests even though you can do them again and again till you get them right. I hate taking risks and it’s an issue.
        There’s more, but it is late, by my standards.

          book-lover77 replied 1 month ago

          Hm, I think I get that problem too…Being someone who plays it safe may seem problematic, and you start to wonder why not stop playing it safe, but then you watch the careless person (every once in a while) mess up, and then not playing it safe feels impossible… to me anyway. Most of the time I follow what my brain says, but then occasionally I…[Read more]

        youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

        Thank you, I was in an awful state of mind :((
        I think I’ll delete this post because of the new rules, but you guys are amazing. A shame that we can’t have talks such as this anymore.

          cattyrose replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          yeah 😭

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          It really is 😓
          Though I do wonder if we’d be allowed to talk on old posts.

          cattyrose replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          I don’t see why not
          Would they even know if we did anyway?

          youareenough replied 2 weeks, 1 day ago

          I don’t know, there’s no transparency about this.

    youareenough posted an update in the group THE EVER NEVER HANDBOOK Talk 1 month, 1 week ago

    If someone ever tells you that procrastination is a bad thing, tell them my tale.
    My room bas been really messy and I’ve just not cleaned it for a while, because of stuff I don’t feel comfortable explaining. And my Dad bought me a laptop for cleaning my room!! ^-^
    Procrastinating for the win.

        jbreiwa replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        So wish my Dad would do that for me! My parents a strict and they haven’t let me play Minecraft in 6 months. And maybe I’ve gone a little nuts. :/

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Aww I’m so sorry :((
          6 months seems pretty harsh D:

          jbreiwa replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Oh well If i get my math grade up I get to play! 🙂

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          :((
          Good luck!

        effie replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Nice.

          jbreiwa replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Thanks All yall! 🙂

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          But I haven’t cleaned my roomyet T-T

    youareenough posted an update in the group THE EVER NEVER HANDBOOK Talk 1 month, 1 week ago

    I love Chloe but what happened to her character development?

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        (Miraculous)

        goodrocksforever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        uh, she just kinda stayed a ****

          goodrocksforever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          je*rk

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Nooo I love Chloe T-T
          Hopefully she’ll be…better in the next season

        book-lover77 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Same, I was a little disappointed when she pretty much went back to square one. Also, just wanted to say I love Miraculous so much! (Adrinette is the best!)

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Yup :((
          (Idk, Marinette’s a little…stalkery)

          book-lover77 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          (Do you ship something else from MLB then? I understand the stalker thing though, she just needs to chill sometimes, and not steal his phone from his locker just to delete a voicemail. The occasions are painful to watch for me)

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          (Yeah ha ha it’s cringy. I guess Alya and Nino.)

          everneveracademy replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          (yes she is kind of stalkery but I don’t ship anyone in MLB, it is advancing to a creepy level of stalking)
          (sorry for jumping in)

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          (Aha that’s fine, everyone’s welcome here!)
          Name and pronouns, everybody? If you’re comfortable, of course. /g

          book-lover77 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          (^Yep, it’s cool!)
          I’m Amber, pronouns she/her!

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Thank you, that’s cool!
          Skye, she/her

    youareenough posted an update in the group Website Central 1 month, 1 week ago

    @Jun
    I would like to report @/kyliejenner. This person has admitted to being an alternate account, which is against the website rules.
    I quote “…it is against website rules to make more than one account.”
    This person has been spreading negativity and rumours as well.

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        This person joined for the specific purpose of being rude to another user, which I believe is a direct opposition of what this website was made for in the first place. Personally, I do not feel safe with someone like them on here.

        catsforeverandever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Where are they being rude?

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          They have deleted the post.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I mean comment

        raynaevil809 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        what did they say?

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          They were being unnecessarily rude to someone, they deleted the comment though.

        kyliejenner replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Please do report me, this account has spread it’s message. This site is an extremely corrupt place. It’s like they give free rose coloured glasses when you join. Also stop that bs, i’ve done nothing to you, not like im a master hacker. You should be more concerned with discovering some of the terrible people around you. Like the racist who got the…[Read more]

          shadowshinobi replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Apologies, but this question is not really related to what you said (mad respect for writing a whole paragraph though), but what do you mean by getting clogged emails? I’ve never received emails when people responded to my posts. Is there a site setting?
          .
          .
          .
          (Also, I could’ve sworn this comment chain was longer…)

          raynaevil809 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          what the heck? First the ALM fight and now this?

          shadowshinobi replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Yeah, let’s not get into this situation again…

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          You have. You make me feel extremely unsafe, and you are the person spreading hate on this website.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          And to my knowledge, Coco never did that. And I trust her far more than I do you. Do you know how that sounds, coming from an anonymous account that spreads unkindness, especially towards my own friend? Yeah, I didn’t think so. I honestly do hope you get banned, because you’re rude. If you have an issue with Coco take it up with her, instead of…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Alm fight?
          So far, it just sounds like this person is using their suit of anonymity to their benefit. Because if this account does get banned, they can just make another and still have their other account to fall back on.

          bronwynofjauntjolie replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          the reason the fantasy casting group was removed wasn’t due to a racist, it was due to a large fight breaking out that caused a toxic environment and was uncomfortable for everyone- the main participants should’ve probably all been banned, but unfortunately only one was, when they all made some rude insults or statements and deserved to be…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Not going to involve myself.

    youareenough posted an update in the group THE EVER NEVER HANDBOOK Talk 1 month, 1 week ago

    Why does nobody ever tell tell the truth? No beating around the bush, no sugarcoating, no halves. Do you fear meeting the same fate Coco did? Because she did that. She worded her opinion, but it seems that no one else does. And I’m saddened by that, for you say you’ll continue her legacy, but the most striking thing about her was her honesty, tho…[Read more]

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Just to make it clear, this place is pretty darn cool if I say so myself.

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        I mean I’m physically shaking because of my fear of conflict but hey, sometimes it’s better to say things.

          lifeasabookworm replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          if we all live in fear, we will amount to absolutely nothing – i had my … how do i phrase this, disagreements with coco but i agree – sometimes, you must speak – but there is always a composed manner and approach you should take instead of being impulsive, if u get what i mean – especially in a site that is primarily for young kids, there are…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I don’t feel like we should have to do that. People shouldn’t have to use careful phrasing for that one person who misunderstands them.
          If this is a children’s site, why take the opinions of other people too seriously? Something we forget all too often is that there is a person behind the screen. An actual person, just like you. Sonder. And you c…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          And if it’s easy to misinterpret, why does nobody ask for an explanation before jumping to conclusions? This isn’t school, we should not have to carefully articulate ideas.
          Also, there are several factors that can lead to impulsivity, and not all of them can be controlled. I feel that we’re all smart enough to know that everyone is human, and I…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          You implied that things should be thought out. So should replies.
          (I’ll stop spamming now, sorry for the notifications)

          lifeasabookworm replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          and yh, this place is far from perfect – i mean, what most people fail to understand is – any place that has mass gatherings of humans (online or in real life) – there will always be disputes/ differing but to avoid toxicity and stuff, we need to come to a mutual respect and actually be open-minded and civil about things instead of saying things…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I do understand that, but I feel that mostly applies to posting in the forums. If it’s in your activity that person is choosing to delve into the thoughts of another and needs to be conscious and respectful of that.
          If your opinion was purposefully put out there, then sure, be ready for consequences. Though that is awful. What you said about b…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I apologise if I come off as strong headed, I am not good with debating, it is a thing I purposefully avoid.

          lifeasabookworm replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          okay, i’ve finally got myself a cup of tea and found an opportunity to just elucidate more on my points – anyways, i hope u r well 🙂

          what i mean by “careful phrasing” – all i want people on here to do, is be kind with how they state their opinions, i am not asking for you to tape your mouths and not converse at all, and only speak of goodness…[Read more]

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        It sure does suck. There appears to be this unwritten law that we stray away from certain topics, like mild politics, and yet many break the moral code and are not reprimanded for it. It’s extremely confusing and I fear that I will never understand, for everywhere I look there appears to be a nee rule, a new exception. Perhaps I am living by w…[Read more]

        gummibear2434 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        I don’t inform people of my opinions bc of the toxicity that is sometimes associated with my unique opinions. Or rather, the fear of meeting toxicity and people not liking me for who I am…

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          But we shouldn’t have to be scared of saying what we think. At least the minor parts, I suppose. Opinions are a beautiful thing, and the way that we just completely avoid the topic is sad.
          Personally, I would rather have people like me for who I am than have people like me for who I’m not.

          gummibear2434 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I understand what you mean, I really do, but I’ve just found that not speaking about them avoids large conflicts. Conflicts that can tear people apart and escalate no matter what one does. Any idea that isn’t a popular idea is usually wrong in some, maybe even most people’s eyes. One thing that someone doesn’t agree with can spoil their opinion of…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          That really seems like a them problem. If you are someone who judges people off of one opinion that you do not share, then you are not smart. Personally, I don’t to want to be friends with someone who wants my opinions to match theirs or simply not be expressed.

        jafaristhebest replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        ^^^ Yes, that’s what I do, too…

        everneveracademy replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        ^^^^^sometimes I don’t say what I want to say.
        Coco was always there, marking her destination and letting people know she’s here. It was fun reading what she wrote on almost every post on the site when she was here. But sometimes people would go against that, and then a lot of fighting and drama and…
        Stating your opinion isn’t wrong, some people…[Read more]

          luvmydogsierrags11 replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I haven’t been on this site in forever what happened?

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          To Coco? The site?

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Well, believe it or not, that was their choice. She chose to say what she thought, and people chose to retaliate, people chose their reactions. Sometimes it was fair, and other times, it was not. Other times, a lot of the said drama could have been avoided, and I’m sad that it was not, for the solutions were so visible, and so simple, but things e…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Honestly, the fact that people could have just mot read her activity, or asked for explanations, and been civil…it’s shameful, because I really thought we were better than that.
          Anonymously spreading hate…it’s meant to have consequences. And honestly, I wonder what would happen if I left for a month. I wonder who would finally admit to the…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          And also, I know, because I’m nd and I need tone indicators (I am getting better though)

        thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Some people need tone indicators and clarification because they can’t read tone, and people might feel bad asking for clarification or explanation’s sometimes! it’s really lame to blame that stuff on the person who was confused/misunderstood something. It’s important to accommodate everyone and not just brush things aside because it’s ‘just one…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I’m not blaming them, I just believe that if you know you need accommodations it is your responsibility to tell others that. If they feel bad and know they need an explanation maybe they shouldn’t say anything, just to be on the safe side.
          Judging people harshly based off of a difference in opinion is not smart. Having an opinion and sharing it…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Also, is l*me an ableist thing? Sorry if I’m wrong, I need to educate myself further on these topics. I’m not trying to one up you or anything.

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          The first part is fair!! It’s important to ask if you need tone indicators. However, people should never have to censor themselves just because they don’t understand something!! It’s important to help people to understand rather than saying to just be quiet because that shuts down so many opinions. Hearing what others have to say and giving…[Read more]

        outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        Um dude YOU have no context-

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Actually, I have a lot of context. Please don’t make assumptions about users you don’t know.

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          You think I don’t know you? You think I don’t know COCO? YOu obviously don’t have context if you’re talking about me and then saying you aren’t as well-

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Well nobody who is currently here knows me particularly well, you included.
          No, I know that you know/knew Coco.
          I’m not really talking about you? More of a situation you were involved in. I don’t get that last part…

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Yes but you responded to a comment about my experience in a TONE (ha relating to previous convo) that suggested that I was the wrong one in a situation where you haven’t heard my side or my friend’s.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Maybe you should ask me about that instead of jumping to conclusions? I’m really bad with tone, and it’s pretty hard to read over the internet. Perhaps you simply read it that way? I do not mean to gaslight >~<

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          You got really defensive and you don’t necessarily know what I mean.

        cattyrose replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        I try to tell the truth. If someone asks for the truth, I will give it to them. But there is no such thing as the truth, because whoever tells it to you will always be ever so slightly biased. If asked, I will give my version of the truth. But if I told that all the time? I would have been banned aeons ago. Human beings think negative things…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          No, I mean harmless subjective truths, not objective ones 🙂
          I get your reasoning a little more now.

          cattyrose replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          ah oki

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Yeah.

        youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        @thecoven4ever @lifeasabookworm @outdoorpoet
        Please don’t be offended if I don’t reply for a short well. I’m feeling extremely anxious, an unfortunate side effect of me having debates, however kind they are.
        I apologise for my bad tone, I’m not the greatest at conveying myself correctly online, though the way to learn that is by doing.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          *while

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Also, I thought that at least two of you left the site…

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I’m sorry you’re feeling anxious! I promise you these debates are completely lighthearted, we don’t mean any harm. Take a break if you need, drink some water and take care of yourself, ok? If you think it would be helpful we can all start using tone indicators in our comments <3 Here's a list:

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I have left the site! I do come back from time to time just to look over stuff and say hi to friends. I saw this post and had something I want to say! I hope that’s not a problem? /nm /gen

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Thank you! I will, I should probably take a break from the internet.
          And thanks for the tone indicator list too, I only knew a few before, and that’s why I didn’t use them consistently. /g
          Oh that’s really cool! It’s fine, I’m just not used to this many people seeing my posts, and I’m not great with change. /srs

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Apologies, I stalk the site wide activity from time to time so that’s how I found it, I assume that’s how the others did as well. That’s fine! I understand how it can be a bit overwhelming, don’t sweat it <3

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Btw! What are your pronouns?

          lifeasabookworm replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          i am so sorry – i didn’t mean to make you feel nervous or anxious – believe me, i am like that too – i get very scared in debates as well, it’s to the point that all i can think about IS the debate for forthcoming weeks. i am so so sorry – if i made you feel like this – i know your a very nice person and everything you speak of comes from a good…[Read more]

          cattyrose replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          same!

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          I’m sorry for still bot responding but my mental capacity right now is awful.
          I’ll try after school.

        theginger replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        As a disclaimer, since I know many people are on a hair trigger right now (who wouldn’t be), I liked Coco. However, Coco was rude. She was honest, yes, but she was also offensive and abrasive. You can voice your opinions and be honest in a respectful, non-confrontational way. It takes more effort, but it also means we can have a civil discussion.…[Read more]

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Couldn’t have said it better myself, Lauren <3

          theginger replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          *hugs tightly* I love you too Thea. Now, my big sister brain is screaming at me to scold you for being here, but I’m also so happy to see you…this is an odd dilemma to have. Be safe and be careful, okay? I’m here if you need anything.

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Thanks Lauren <3 I'm very glad to see you as well 😀 I shall be careful I promise <3

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          What is a hair trigger?
          Also, I don’t know Coco for arguing, because I haven’t seen many of those, I only know her for expressing herself mainly, and for being a good friend. I suppose that everyone got well acquainted with different parts of her personality?

          theginger replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          When someone is on a hair trigger, it basically means that they are agitated or stressed enough that one tiny thing will set them off.
          Coco and I were friendly, I’m not sure if she considered me a friend, so I know how loyal she was. She was a good friend, but that doesn’t negate the fact that she was also rude/abrasive/inconsiderate in the way…[Read more]

          thecoven4ever replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          ^^Exactly what Lauren said. Coco had many different sides to her personality, and some of them were absolutely wonderful! We all have our flaws however, and that’s mainly what I was discussing in my above point 🙂

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Coco will never be an exact science, because she is human, and humans are never exact.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          So I suppose that she will never be completely right or completely wrong, meaning that there is no way to fairly judge her actions.
          But honestly, I do believe that the good outweighed the bad, and that nobody her age should have to be responsible, even in part, for the actions of others. It’s just not fair. Because personally, I know that the s…[Read more]

          theginger replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          She is not responsible for the actions of others, but she is responsible for herself and the way she interacts with others. I believe that was what got her into a mess on the site. It’s unfortunate, but it’s also an opportunity to learn and grow in the future.
          It might not be fair, but many of us have been put in that same situation, so we…[Read more]

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          That is true, but if somebody is purposely trying to get a reaction then the blame for something should partly fall on them.
          That’s really not a way to justify it. It’s not fair, end of. A lot of people having to do it doesn’t make it right.
          I also think that the way we inform people of things is not kind. Telling people something they did in mu…[Read more]

          theginger replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          When interacting with other people, nothing is very fair haha. We can agree to disagree, since I believe we have different opinions on the matter at hand. That’s okay though, it’s a normal part of life.

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Sure, I’ll agree to disagree.

          theginger replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Wonderful 😀

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          🙂
          Have a nice weekend (or week; timezones)!

          theginger replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          Timezones for sure haha! It’s Saturday over here.

        outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

        (Me wishes to apologize for my tone, and for being so ugh-y.)

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          It’s okay, I just got a little scared is all.

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          No, but it’s not okay. I guess I was just hurt, by the way you were phrasing things, and I’ve been angry about this for a long time. ANd… it wasn’t alright, and I’m worried that you aren’t going to be okay now and it’s my fault. *I sigh* Is there anything I can do to make it up to you?

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          There isn’t really, in all honestyI’ll probably have nightmares about this for a while, but it’s honestly my own fault, I shouldn’t have started this knowing I wouldn’t be able to handle it. It’s not your fault, this post just made me question things and now I don’t know what to do with my life, in all honesty.
          It sounds like you should talk t…[Read more]

          outdoorpoet replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          No, it doesn’t. And… well, if there’s anything I can do, I”m here, okay?

          youareenough replied 1 month, 1 week ago

          That’s relieving. I will, thank you.

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